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Certified Family Law Specialist

Kathy Minella

Kathy Minella is a respected leader in California family law and the founder of Minella Law Group, APC, a premier woman-owned and operated law firm serving clients throughout San Diego County.

Practice Areas

Divorce

50%

Child Custody

20%

Adoptions

10%

Surrogacy

10%

Kathy’s legal journey began in 2010 after graduating from California Western School of Law, where she discovered her passion for family law through hands-on advocacy at the Madge Bradley Domestic Violence Clinic. She began her practice at the largest family law firm in North San Diego County, quickly distinguishing herself through her sharp legal analysis, calm courtroom presence, and ability to handle high-conflict matters with both firmness and grace. Recognizing a need for a more client-centered and holistic approach to family law, she later joined a boutique firm to lead its family law division before founding Minella Law Group.

Minella Law Group was born out of Kathy’s belief that every client deserves a personalized strategy, compassionate counsel, and tireless advocacy—no matter how complex the case. The firm now exclusively handles family law matters, including:

  • High-asset divorce and complex property division
  • Business and professional practice valuations
  • Child custody and parenting plans
  • Spousal and child support
  • Domestic violence and restraining orders
  • Mediation and collaborative divorce
  • Adoption, surrogacy, and family formation
  • Military family law
  • Estate planning and child welfare advocacy

Kathy has successfully handled thousands of cases, ranging from straightforward agreements to fiercely contested trials. Her practice is especially known for navigating high-net-worth divorces, where discretion, financial sophistication, and strategic foresight are paramount. She works closely with financial experts, forensic accountants, and business evaluators to ensure her clients’ wealth and interests are protected—without unnecessary conflict or exposure.

In 2016, Kathy became a Board-Certified Family Law Specialist by the State Bar of California Board of Legal Specialization—an elite designation earned by less than 1% of family law attorneys statewide. She is committed to continuing education, completing hundreds of hours of training in mediation, domestic violence, child custody evaluations, trauma-informed lawyering, and collaborative dispute resolution.

Kathy is also appointed by the San Diego Superior Court as Minor’s Counsel, serving as a voice for children in high-conflict custody cases. In this critical role, she advocates for children’s safety and well-being, often helping the court make difficult decisions in cases where families are in crisis. This experience gives her deep insight into the emotional dynamics of custody disputes and informs her approach to protecting children in all family law matters.

A Holistic, Solutions-Oriented Approach

Kathy believes that not all families need to fight to resolve their legal issues. Many benefit from respectful negotiation and structured problem-solving. As a trained mediator and collaborative law advocate, she helps clients reach efficient, private, and durable agreements—particularly valuable to professionals, business owners, and parents seeking to shield their children and reputations from litigation.

While Kathy is a formidable trial attorney when needed, she is also a trusted guide for clients who wish to take a more peaceful and dignified approach to divorce or custody. Her dual capability—as both a skilled litigator and a peacemaker—makes her especially effective in tailoring the right strategy to each client’s goals.

Recognition & Leadership

Kathy has been recognized by her peers and the legal community for her excellence in advocacy and client service. Her honors include:

  • Super Lawyer, 2023
  • Super Lawyer Rising Star, 2019–2020
  • Attorney of the MonthAttorney Journal, August 2021

She is an active member of the San Diego Family Law Bar Association, the San Diego County Bar Association, and the Minor’s Counsel Panel. She frequently mentors younger attorneys and supports professional women balancing family and leadership roles.

Outside the Courtroom

Beyond her legal practice, Kathy is a dedicated mother of two boys and enjoys spending time with her family in their San Diego garden, where she teaches her children about sustainability and the joy of growing their own food. She is also a passionate advocate for animal rescue and has welcomed many rescue dogs into her home over the years.

Certifications

  • Certified Family Law Specialist, State Bar of California Board of Legal Specialization

Professional Memberships

  • San Diego Family Law Bar Association
  • San Diego County Bar Association
  • Minor’s Counsel Panel, San Diego Superior Court

Honors and Awards

• Selected to Super Lawyer: 2023, 2024 & 2025
• Selected to Super Lawyer Rising Star: 2019-2020
• Selected as the Attorney of the Month for August 2021 in the Attorney Journal, 2021

Recent Posts by Kathy Minella

unsplashDomestic Violence Restraining OrdersHow Does Domestic Violence Affect Child Custody?
November 5, 2025

How Does Domestic Violence Affect Child Custody?

If you’re wondering if the California family court system considers domestic violence when deciding on issues of legal custody, physical custody, and visitation rights, the answer is yes.
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November 3, 2025

FAQ: Are There Ways To Reduce Alimony?

California family law courts order spousal support to ensure that the standard of living experienced during the marriage is maintained to a reasonable extent after the divorce. Regardless of what…
divorce attorney san diego splitting assets | Minella LawDivorceProtecting Your San Diego Business or Professional Practice During Divorce
October 29, 2025

Protecting Your San Diego Business or Professional Practice During Divorce

Divorce is never simple—but when you're a business owner, licensed professional, or practice partner in San Diego, divorce becomes a financial and professional turning point. Your business isn’t just another…