Division of Marital Assets


5 Tips For Protecing Separate Property During A Divorce

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Marriage can be a wonderful and blissful union. However, some find the bliss turns into disdain over time and divorce may become an option. As a result, you may find you are completely stressed about losing property, owing debtors and protecting your assets and income as a whole. Most importantly most people are worried about losing their separate property during a divorce.  The below top five tips highlight the key steps for protecting separate property during a divorce.

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FAQ: Who Keeps the House In A Divorce?

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Clients always worry about dividing the house in a divorce.  During a divorce, the largest asset shared between you and your spouse is your home. In many cases, the home is jointly shared and it is uncertain how the division of property in divorce will shake out.

The question of division of property in divorce is an emotional one, not just because of a failing marriage, but the idea of losing a familiar and safe space as well. There is uncertainty about living alone, and moving somewhere new. All of this combined with the potent emotions of divorce can lead you to spending a lot of time worrying about division of property in divorce. Read More


FAQ: How Do I File My Taxes During A Divorce?

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I constantly get asked, “how do I file my taxes during a divorce?”  This is one aspect of divorce that is often overlooked as there is no easy answer to this question.  How you (and your former spouse) will file your tax returns during or after your marital dissolution depends on a multitude of factors. The decisions you make on this can have far-reaching financial consequences, so be sure to talk to your family law attorney and accountant so that you understand what lies ahead. Here are answers to some of the most common divorce tax questions we hear from clients.

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The Cost of Divorce: Who Pays for What in a Divorce?

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The financial price tag for divorce is not limited to attorney’s fees and court costs. For instance, there might be mortgages and credit cards debts to be paid, and professionals such as real estate agents and accountants to be compensated. This means the cost of divorce will be paid either from one or both spouses’ incomes, or from martial or non-marital assets. No matter who actually pays the cost of divorce, bothparties are affected, as there is less cash available when all is said and done. This is why you should strive for amicability during a divorce, not waste money fighting about costly, unproductive issues as the cost of divorce can cause significant hardships.

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5 Little Known Ways to Save Your Sanity During a Divorce

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Save Your Sanity During A Divorce!

Going through a divorce is one of the most stressful life events that can happen to an individual. Through the pain, confusion, anger, and frustration of the emotional turmoil, not to mention legal headaches, it is important to find ways to save your sanity during divorce so you can come out the other side stable and ready to start this new chapter of your life.

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Timeline for Divorce in California

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There is a timeline for divorce in California which begins once you have filed and served your divorce papers.  There are certain steps that need to happen before your marital status can be officially terminated.

6 Month Waiting Period in CA

A divorce in California will take at least 6 months, but could also take several years depending on the individuals involved. A simple, uncontested divorce will normally take 6 months to complete and is the soonest a couple can divorce, due to the mandatory waiting period in California. Seeking legal expertise from professional attorneys like Minella Law Group is always advisable, couples who are going through a divorce are advised to give mediation and or settlement a solid try before appearing before a judge. The reason is that when an authoritative entity enters into the situation, a substantial amount of control is given over to the court in the interest of having matters decided for you. Obviously, a settlement created by a judge may or may not create finality that you find satisfactory. If children are involved, there are added risks in giving over the control to a judge, and will be more difficult to adjust later and/or amend after your day in court.

Dissolution of Divorce

A Dissolution of divorce begins with the actual decision of becoming divorced. The petition for dissolution is prepared with the help of a capable attorney who prepared the petition detailing the way the divorce-seeking party would like to settle matters such as property, custody, and spousal support. The attorney then files the petition with the court and has the other party personally served. If the other party does not agree with the terms, they have 30 days to file a response to the petition. Before the settlement discussions can start, all financial documents and information referring to the case must be exchanged.  If the parties cannot settle their case, it will be set for trial.  Each party will present the evidence supporting their position in the divorce. Once the judge has heard all of the testimony, he or she will render a decision on how to settle the case. If one party of both parties are not satisfied with the terms set forth by the judge, it is possible to file an appeal.

Child Custody and Visitation

During a divorce, serious disagreements may arise over child custody that require experienced attorneys like Minella Law Group.  Child custody disputes must be dealt with prior to the case being finalized. If the parties cannot agree on custody, it is important to get started by filing a motion in court to have the child share plan decided. There could be other issues involved such as child support, spousal support, and attorney fees that also need to be decided. It can take months to participate in custody mediation and to ultimately get a decision from a judge, so it is best to start right away.

Finalizing your Divorce

Once all the issues have been resolved, the judgment will be submitted to court for review and filing.  The judge will review the judgment of dissolution to ensure that all terms are fair and that the paperwork is filled out properly.  The judge will sign and terminate your marital status restoring your single status.


Despite there being a timeline for divorce in California, your divorce does not have to drag on and on. The experienced staff at Minella Law Group can advise you of your rights and assist you making the divorce process as painless as possible.  For more information or to schedule a consultation, click the button below, or call us at 619-289-7948.  We look forward to helping you!


10 Ways to Protect Your Money During Divorce

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Divorce is often a messy, complicated and emotionally charged affair.  Hasty or poor decisions made regarding the division of money and property may haunt you after the dust has settled.  There are actions you can take to protect your money during divorce, even if you are just considering a divorce.  The following tips are also wise to take into consideration if you are about to get married, especially if one person is entering the union with a great deal more wealth than the other.

Keep in mind that there are Community Property States and Equitable Distribution States. A Community Property State requires that the “marital assets” be split in half equally; California is a Community Property State.

     1. Consider the After Tax Value of Funds and Assets.

  • For example, should your ex offer you a $50,000 IRA in exchange for $50,000 in a bank account, he or she would have access to all of the funds immediately.  Should you need access to the funds you would have to pay the taxes and penalties for cashing out the IRA early and could be left with only half of the money

     2. Resist the Temptation to Wage War Against Your Adversarial Spouse.

  • The extra 10% they may be asking for could end up costing you less than the lawyer’s fees in an all out legal battle.  It’s best to avoid confrontation and keep the peace.
  • You can choose to have an attorney and have an amicable dissolution, it does not have to cost you everything you are fighting to keep.

     3. Funds you Have Had in Accounts Before the Marriage Remain Yours Unless you Have Commingled the Money in a Joint Account.

  • In California, the presumption is that what you owned before marriage is yours unless there is evidence to rebut that presumption.
  • Also, if you owned property before marriage that property is most likely still yours unless you did something to rebut the presumption.

     4. Heirlooms Given Solely to you by your Family also Remain your Property.

  • Make sure you have proof that the items were indeed endowed only to you and not your spouse as well.
  • Wedding gifts can be characterized as community property.

     5. It’s a Good Idea to Hire a Professional Appraiser to Determine the Value of your Assets.

  • An appraiser can arbitrate the value of your spouse’s business as well.
  • It is also a good idea to get an appraisal of any real property to avoid disputes as to valuation.

     6. Community Property is Assessed at Market Value.

  • For example, the $250 pots and pans set you both own might only be worth $75 used.

     7. You or your Spouse are Allowed to Return to the Residence and Claim Belongings if Either of you have Moved out.

  • If you hired a locksmith to change the locks, your spouse can legally hire another locksmith to change them again and gain access to the residence unless there is a restraining order in place.
  • You cannot make unilateral decisions on the division of property, they have to be joint decisions or decided by a court.

     8. Spousal Support can be for Life

  • In a state such as California, if you have been married for more than 10 years the spouse earning the least amount of money has the right to receive alimony for as long as he or she needs.

     9. It’s a Bad Idea to try and Hide your Funds and Assets.

  • There is a legal process in all states called “discovery”.  Your spouse has the right to obtain information regarding all of your accounts and places where you may have stashed assets. You will likely have to provide live testimony that you have been truthful about your finances.
  • You could be charged with perjury and fined if you are caught lying and lose 100% of that asset if you did try to lie.  It’s best to hire a good divorce attorney who will help you get the best settlement possible.

     10. Prenuptial Agreements can Potentially be Contested or Require Costly Legal Action to Uphold.

  • A prenuptial agreement does not guarantee a fight at divorce but it can be helpful to identify what is separate property before walking into the marriage.
  • Some people have found that a Domestic Asset Protection Trust (DAPT) can protect their funds in the event of a divorce.  A DAPT is an irrevocable trust that prevents creditors from accessing your money and in some cases, can prevent your spouse from accessing it as well.  You should investigate the viability of a DAPT because the rules are different from state to state.


Divorce can be a financially devastating process, but there are ways to minimize the risk and the financial loss to your assets and property. Minella Law Group can assist you to protect your money during a divorce. For more information or to schedule a consultation, click the button below, or call us at 619-289-7948.  We look forward to helping you.

7 MUST HAVE Divorce Tips

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Divorce Tips

As anyone who has been through it will tell you, divorce is never easy. Even the friendliest of divorces are by their nature stressful. There will be many decisions and changes to be made, both before and during the process. Preparing yourself as much as possible for the most common issues that arise can help you successfully navigate your divorce while maintaining some sense of normalcy in your life. Here are 7  must have divorce tips to keep in mind while going through a divorce.


Divorcing is one of the most crucial decisions of your life and seeing expert advice at the beginning of the process can save you money in the long run because you are being proactive, not reactive. Consulting with a divorce attorney does not mean the same as retaining one. Mistakes made early on can be very costly in terms of both child and spousal support as well as division of the marital assets.


Gather documentation that shows both of your incomes. If either or both of you are salaried employees this is done through recent pay stubs or tax returns. If self-employed you’ll need bank and financial business statements. Make copies before separating and filing, as obtaining this information later could be difficult.


With expenses, most marital debt tends to be split based on who is more financially able to pay, not whose name it is in. While not always the case, be prepared by obtaining statements on all open credit accounts and, again, make copies.


Living as one is very different and usually more expensive than living as a couple. The good news is you’re well aware of what it takes to run a household. Preparing a budget pre-divorce will help you see what you need to survive in your new life. Determining ahead of time what your cost of living will be will benefit you enormously when it comes to negotiating your divorce settlement or asking the court for financial determinations.


If it’s at all possible, pay off and close all joint credit accounts (excluding your mortgage) prior to separation. If it’s not possible to pay them off in full, have the accounts frozen and continue to make payments. Contact creditors to let them know you are going through a divorce and whether you are changing your address. It’s important that you continue to receive copies of all joint bills. If you don’t already do so, have your accounts accessible online. Even in the best of circumstances divorce proceedings can take a long time and one missed or late payment can affect your credit.

     6. STAY OR GO?

If one party is thinking of or needs to move out of the house, do not make a move without first discussing this decision with an attorney. In some cases, such as abuse, it is for the best, but not taking the proper steps beforehand can have negative consequences down the road. Issues that need to be addressed before one party moves out include who will pay the mortgage and related household expenses and, if there are children, with whom they will stay. If one party moves out, document everything to avoid conflict later on.


The divorce process has the potential to bring out anyone’s worst behavior. Try to maintain a level of respect with each other and keep your emotions under control. Easier said than done sometimes, but the benefits to your health and sanity demand it. Finally, if there are children, remember to keep their world as stable as possible and never speak in derogatory terms of the other parent.


Even with a number of divorce tips it is never easy, but there are ways to make it easier on yourself.  Knowing what to expect and how to handle situations can keep minimize stress levels.  Minella Law Group can help ease the burdens and unknown variables involved in the process, let us complete the work for you!  For more information or to schedule a consultation, click the button below, or call us at 619-289-7948.  We look forward to helping you.

Division of Military Benefits

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Understanding the Division of Military Retirement in Divorce

 A military retirement fund, or pension, is a benefit that is provided to members of the military service once their duty has ended. Like other kinds of retirement pay, military retirement funds constitute a kind of deferred compensation, an arrangement wherein a portion of an employee’s income is paid out on a date after that income was actually earned.

However, unlike other pensions that may allow members to borrow portions of their payment or receive cash sums early, military retirement funds are inflexible. Once an individual within the military service has completed twenty years of military action, they will be entitled to receive their full pension.

 Entitlement of a Former Spouse to a Military Spouse’s Pension

The USFSPA or Uniformed Services Former Spouse Protection Act does not automatically award the spouse of the military member with any of that service member’s retired pay. Instead, the law permits the state to treat the issue of military disposable retired pay as another form of property within marital law, allowing it to be divided during the divorce proceedings like other marital assets.

USFSPA permits the local court to treat the retired pay of a service member as they would any other civilian pension plan, and under the USFSPA, a court may decide to divide the pension between the two spouses at a particular ratio, or they may award it fully to the service member. In the event that the fund is awarded fully to a service member, the courts may decide to otherwise compensate the spouse for his or her share of the pension using other marital assets.

Survivor Plan Beneficiary

Under the consideration of the USFSPA, just like a current spouse, a former spouse may be designated as the Survivor Benefit Plan beneficiary of their military partner. SBP is a particular annuity that can allow for retired service members to continue providing some form of income to a particular designated individual in the event of the service member’s death.

Typically, unless a retiring service member specifically requests to be removed from participation or declines involvement, they will be automatically enrolled into the Survivor Benefit Plan. Usually, if a divorce procedure takes place after the service member has retired, then the court will terminate the beneficiary designation that had originally been in place in favor of the spouse, although coverage can be directed towards the former spouse either by voluntary payments or to comply with a court order.

How to Request a Share of the Military Pension

If you are considering a divorce procedure as the spouse of a service member then it is important for you to focus upon addressing the pension during the proceedings, even if you feel as though retirement appears to be a particularly distant prospect. If your aim is to receive some of your ex-partner’s retired pay, then you will need to obtain a court order dictating the division of his or her military pension.

There are two ways of arranging a court order dictating the division of retirement funds. First, you and your spouse could request to enter into a written agreement between the two of you which dictates how the pension will be divided. If you and your spouse cannot agree, then you will need to go to trial and allow the court to decide the division for you.

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If you need help with your military divorce Minella Law Group can help ease the burden and guide you through the process.  For more information or to schedule an appointment, click the button below, or call us at (619) 289-7948. We look forward to helping you.

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Dividing Child-Related Tax Breaks After Divorce

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Tax breaks can help reduce the financial burden of raising children.  Some – although not all – of these tax breaks can be divided between the parents after a divorce, which in turn can increase the net funds available to support the children.  Here is how this works.

Preliminary Requirements for Dividing Tax Breaks Between Parents

There are four preliminary requirements parents must meet before they can split the tax breaks for a child:

  1. The parents must be divorced or legally separated, or must have lived apart at all times for the last six months of the year;
  2. The parents separately or together must have provided more than half of the child’s total financial support;
  3. One or both parents must have custody during the year; and
  4. The custodial parent must have waived his or her right to claim the child as a dependent for that year, meaning that parent will not get the child’s exemption on their tax return.  For this waiver to be used, the custodial parent must sign IRS Form 8332, and the noncustodial parent must always attach a copy of the Form 8332 to his or her tax return for any tax year that he or she relies on the waiver. Read More